
So...It's the time of year again. Yep..Father's Day. For many of us this day has been laced with painful memories....and for some joyous reflection. However, the greatest treasure of all is to realize that God is the Father you have always desired. Placing expectations on anyone is just a precurser from a resentment. When resentments are present in your life it is like a million heavy chains on your ankles which are bolted to the earth. The only way to get through the curse of resentment is .....forgiveness. In my personal life I have been on a journey with Jesus...he has showed me what his Grace has and continues to do for me.
I am human however....One resentment that continues to rear it's head is that of my "father." You see...I did not meet my father till I was 21 years old. We meet and the first time was sureal. The second time....he denied being my father in front of my friends (I tried to kill him). In retrospect I wonder if that is what Jesus was getting at? I then think about the times that I have denied him as my father by allowing other "gods" to take his place?
When I was ready to face my Dad again and offer him the grace that he deserved....I looked up his phone number on Google...
and I found his obituary.....
Whatever rift you have between your father...Don't wait until it is to late.
"Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. “In your anger do not sin” Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 and do not give the devil a foothold. Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need." Ephesians 4:26-28